Discontent is actually a "soul greenhouse" of change.It is the first warning you receive that things  are not what they should be and that a change is required to correct the situation.Discontent comes when there is juxtaposition between needs adn desires.Usually,you're pursuing a need,achieve it,and then continue to pursue the ideals of the same need.This occurs because you don't know what to do once you achieve a need,you need to move on to the next pursuit.

Many people find that discontent for a given situation is acceptable.For instance,discontent with your work might feel acceptabe because you have to make money and care for your family. In this way,you learn to over come the discontent by accepting the obligations.However,while this may work,it is not necessarily the route to take .indeed,you might need the job,but this feeling is calling for an evaluation as some aspects of the situation needs attention.

Discontent can provide you with either a reason to stay right where you are or a fertile environment from which to omve forward.While it does provide a wa for the universe to bring attention to a situation,we sometimes become so accustomed to the feeling that it becomes part of our life.In such a case,if we adapt and the discontented feeling is resolved,we will miss it.

Growth from discontent is an amazing change.Again,comparing to the greenhouse,it can either smother you,or hel you grow.However,change from discontent is something that you have to execute consciously,because discontent can also provide you with a safety zone.By accepting discontent in one part of your life, it can spread into other areas of your life.You can become satisfied with the feeling because it becomes familiar.However,you end up working on parts of your life in hopes of resolving the feeling when you find that,once that part of your life has changed,you still feel the same.

Growth occurs because you feel a push,or a pull,to move in a direction.The objective is to obtain a balance so that the discontentdisappears.Once you achieve the necessary change,you will be able to leave the discontented feelings behind you.Focus on the situation that makes you feel the discontent,not on other issues that may,or may not,make you feel better.The contented feeling from"doing busy work"or fixing something that isn't broken is fleeting,unless you tackle the core issue.

The growth comes in once you embrace the change.When you move from an area of the familar,you must learn something new or different to adapt to the unfamiliar.However,in this transition,you are putting your life back in balance and moving forward,which eliminates those feelings of discontent.

Dont't let discontent drag you down! listen to your gut! it will always tell you when change is necessary.It might be a simple gnawing feeling or a twisted knot.In either case,be honest with yourself and trust that feeling.Discontent is the universe's way of telling you that a change is necessary within yourself to resolve the situation.It is there to warn you of situations and guide you when things need to change.

What's next?

To make the change,you have to know where you are and where you want to be in the near future.However,one thing to keep in mind is that you want ot achieve some type of balance to counter the disontent.Remember that discontent is caused from an imbalance in one or more parts of your life.Ask yourself,and focus on,what it is that is causing you the most concern.Onece you are able to determine the issue,only then can you set out on a goal that satisfied the feeling.Such an approach will not only restore balance,but it will also allow you to move forward to a more fulfilling life

 

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